This
article is for men and it discusses what they need to know about this
all-important female body part.
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Exercise
There have been many articles attesting to the joys of regular sêx and its many
health benefits. In fact, one article recommended that women should go to bed
without knickers in order to air out the vagina during sleep. Men like that, as
it sends the ‘right’ signals. It is also nice to perhaps have a late night
shower!
A comedian once said that the best adornment to wear for it is ‘specticles.’
And if you are taking it out for exercise, you should ensure it is in pretty
good shape and looking fine.
Many men prefer a shaved vagina and I do prescribe it for you. It is important
in order to enjoy the act of sex: visually, geographically and maximally as
P-Square would say. Further, you should use all your senses when in front of
the vagina and do not just be ruled by your ‘brain!’ Be in tune with all the
different sensory stimuli from your partner.
Smell
I won’t go into any sordid details, but you need to appreciate the smell of the
vagina you are interacting with. This is from the health point of view. The vagina
should smell fresh and natural without insulting the nostrils. Odd smells
reminiscent of the fish joint or ‘mama put’ bukateria should be frowned upon.
Insist on an open discussion and an explanation before further events. Discuss
the issue of discharges, even menstrual flow and infection openly with your
partner and show you care. Of course, you care about the health and wellbeing
of both of you.
Let’s make one important point about cleanliness of the vagina. Douching is
washing or cleaning out the vagina with water or other mix¬tures of fluids. It
is not recommended and appears to cause more harm than good. The vagina has its
own resident bacteria which the normal acidity of the vagina keeps under
control. But douching can change this delicate balance. This may make a woman
more prone to vaginal infections. Plus, douching can spread existing vaginal
infections up into the uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries.
Sight
Visual inspection and admiration of the vagina enhances sexual intercourse. It
is also of real health benefit. Look for rash, cold sores and blisters which
may indicate scabies or even herpes. Be aware of vaginal discharges, including
bleeding during sex. Evaluate the discharge or secretions from the vagina for
normality.
For example, cervical cancer causes odd, smelly discharges, bleeding and pain
during sex. Ask questions about routine assessments by the doctor and encourage
your partner to seek help. I think that every household should have their own
gynaecologist/obstetrician. Learn to share!
Everyone should be appalled by female genital mutilation (FGM) as still
practised in some parts of Nigeria. Should you know of anyone who believes in
this criminal act, please kindly report them to the police. FGM spoils the
beauty of the vagina and should be abolished forever.
Sound
Some vaginas make noise as if you are on a joke fart pillow. And some others
make a sloshing sound due to so much vaginal secretions or perhaps a poor fit.
You decide. It could be that you need a penile enlargement or maybe she needs a
tailor. I know a good one!
Is sex painful for your partner? All that exercise too much for the vagina to
take? It might not be down to your own physical fitness and prowess. Painful
sêx can be due to bacterial vaginosis, vaginitis, vaginismus and rough sex.
Listen to your partner for sounds of joy and not cries of pain.
Touch
It takes time, practice and an anatomy lesson to appreciate the feel of the
vagina and navigate your way to all the hot spots without using Global
Positioning Satellite. Most of the vagina is erogenous but a combination of
touches and feel allow you to discover what works for your partner.
The G-spot is one of those favourite places that many men look for. It’s one of
the wonders of the world and worth revisiting time and time again. Once you
find it in the vagina, your woman becomes or can become putty in your
hands. Please don’t ask me where it is!
by Dr. Biodun Ogungbo
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